CHIVALRY
A good man is
known by how he treats a woman. Respect for the women, small gestures shows
whether a man is good or not. Very little gestures like holding doors,
fumbling hand to help her get out of the car and offering to fix things
around her apartment work add magic to personality. Pushing the chair outward
while making sit comfortably. These small gestures really work out and
help in knowing what kind of person is your life partner.
MANNERS
AND HYGIENE
You might dream
for a rock star, C.E.O of world’s largest company or a bohemian lifestyle,
but prefer men who are well-groomed and well clean. Men having habits like;
Leaves their apartment too messy, doesn’t smell well, doesn’t wash clothes at
the regular interval of time, all these habits should be avoided. Bad habits
like shouting at you for every little mistake you make and speaking in rough
language is never appreciated by women.
LOYALTY
Trust is the
only key for a happy relationship. Having trust for one another take so
long to attain and can be destroyed so quickly. It’s not a big issue that
whether you are in a causal or serious relation but you should be loyal to your
partner. The man you are dating with should be loyal to you. So a lot of
us may finally settle on a very trustworthy person when we finally find him.
SUPER HOT
The first thing
most ladies look out in a guy is if he is smart and handsome. Ladies wants
their partner to be super-hot, that comes out good. Even when we know in our
inner mind that inner beauty is more precious than outer beauty.
Choosing a man
who comes out nice is good but women still wants a man who really has a beautiful
heart and makes life beautiful and worth living them.
BEING A FRIEND FIRST
“Part-time
lover and a full-time friend...” goes the popular song by Moldy Peaches. Well,
that best sums up what women want in a man. Express your affection through
simple gestures and small gifts - an impromptu massage, a heartfelt note and
hand-picked flowers may cost little, but they can make a woman fall in love
with you all over again. Be a friend, talk to her without judging her and let
her know you’re there for her, come what may.
NOT BEING CLINGY AND DESPERATE
Take it from a
woman - guys who try too hard to impress a girl, end up putting her off. Do not
look too needy or act desperate. Women have special sensory powers to sniff out
men who try too hard. The last thing a woman wants, is to have a clingy guy
hanging outside her door. Be cool and confident, and trust me, she’ll want you
even more!
Conclusively, as you take a good, long, contemplative look at your
heart, what things do you see that need addressing, before you begin to offer
your heart to, and join your heart with someone else’s heart? A good
relationship will require from you a willingness to be authentic, someone who
is comfortable in his or her own skin, who receives her feminine identity from
Christ, not from the man she hopes to marry.
So, spend time
with God and ask Him to show you what you need to know or happen in your heart
before taking your final decision.
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{Mama Helen Oritsejafor From the Book "Basic Principles for Singles and Married" COMING SOON...}
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